Love: A Universal Language

In the winter of 1978, the quiet village of Neauphle-le-Château on the outskirts of Paris suddenly became a place known to the world. The presence of Imam Khomeini there drew journalists, visitors, and constant attention-something that could easily have disturbed the peaceful life of the local residents. What unfolded instead was a remarkable and enduring example of religious outreach, not through speeches or debates, but through genuine human kindness.

From the very beginning of his stay, Imam Khomeini was deeply concerned about his neighbours. He worried that the frequent visits and media activity around his modest home might inconvenience or upset them. This sense of responsibility and respect laid the foundation for a simple yet profound act that would leave a lasting impression on the people of the village.

As Christmas approached and Neauphle-le-Château was adorned with festive lights celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ (peace be upon him), Imam Khomeini reflected on the meaning of this holy occasion for his Christian neighbours-a day filled with hope, love, and spiritual joy. A few days before Christmas, he asked his companions to prepare small gifts and Flowers. Along with them, a short-handwritten note was included. Its message was sincere and heartfelt: congratulations on the birth of Jesus Christ (peace be upon him), an apology for any disturbance caused by his presence, and a wish for a life filled with peace and love.

On Christmas Day, these gifts were delivered to the homes of the villagers. The reaction was unexpected and deeply moving. Many had not anticipated such warmth from a religious leader who was a guest-and an exile-in their country. Surprise quickly turned into smiles, and in many eyes, tears of emotion appeared. One of Imam Khomeini’s companions later recalled ringing the doorbell of a house and handing the gift to a woman who became so touched that she burst into tears.

The impact of this simple gesture did not end there. Soon after, a group of local residents asked to visit Imam Khomeini. He welcomed them without hesitation. The next day, fifteen villagers arrived, each carrying flowers. Through a translator, Imam Khomeini asked about their well-being and whether they had any needs or concerns. Their response was simple: “We only wanted to see you in person and bring these flowers as a gift.” With a warm smile, Imam Khomeini accepted each flower and placed them carefully in a vase beside him. The visitors left deeply moved and grateful for the encounter.

A few months later, Imam Khomeini left Neauphle-le-Château and returned to his homeland. Yet his memory-and more importantly, his manner of conduct-remained alive in the hearts of the villagers. He demonstrated that humanity transcends borders, religions, and cultures, and that respect for the beliefs and values of others can build bridges between hearts.

In those cold winter days, Imam Khomeini did more than give gifts. He delivered a timeless lesson in religious outreach: love is a language understood by all human beings.

Key Missionary Lessons from This Experience

1. Love comes before the message: Before conveying any religious teaching, winning hearts through sincere and respectful behaviour is essential.
2. Respect for others’ beliefs opens the door to dialogue: Acknowledging and honouring the sacred values of others builds trust and creates meaningful connections.
3. Effective outreach does not always require grand efforts: Simple, thoughtful, and timely actions can leave a deeper and more lasting impact than long speeches or arguments.