The Muslim Marriage Guide

Occasion for presenting this book:

13 Jumada al-Thānī – Passing of Umm al-Banīn (peace be upon her)

Book Bibliographic Details:

Author: Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood

Translator: M S Rupani

Publisher: ‎ Amana Publications

Length: 144 Pages

Language: English

ISBN: 978-0915957996

Publication Date: September 4, 2000

About the Book:

The Muslim Marriage Guide, penned by Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood, serves as a comprehensive and highly practical manual for Muslims navigating the complexities of marriage in the modern world. Written with an emphasis on both Islamic jurisprudence (Fiqh) and the practical realities of interpersonal relationships, the book guides readers through every stage of matrimony, from the initial considerations of choosing a partner and performing the nikah (marriage contract) to managing finances, resolving conflict, and addressing sensitive issues related to intimacy and family planning. Its strength lies in its ability to translate abstract Islamic principles concerning justice, mutual respect, and companionship into actionable advice, making it an essential resource for those preparing for marriage, newlyweds establishing their life together, and even couples seeking to strengthen long-standing unions.

The guide stands out for its balanced approach, drawing extensively from the Qur’an and Sunnah while maintaining a sympathetic awareness of contemporary challenges, particularly for Muslims living in Western societies. It systematically addresses common difficulties, such as dealing with cultural expectations versus religious mandates, the roles and responsibilities of both spouses, and the sensitive subject of divorce, always framing solutions within an ethical and faith-based framework. Its clear, accessible tone and detailed exploration of marital rights and obligations have cemented its place as a trusted and authoritative reference for individuals committed to building a stable, loving, and Islamically compliant family life.

About the Author:

Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood is a distinguished British Muslim author and educator, highly regarded for her extensive work in making Islamic teachings accessible to a contemporary, predominantly English-speaking audience. Born into a Christian family, she embraced Islam in the 1980s and subsequently established a prolific career in teaching Islam, comparative religion, and history, primarily as a head of religious studies in British schools. Her background as a convert uniquely positions her to explain complex theological and jurisprudential concepts in a lucid and empathetic manner, bridging the gap between traditional scholarship and the lived experiences of modern Muslims. Maqsood has authored dozens of well-received books on various Islamic topics, including prayer, women’s issues, and biography, with The Muslim Marriage Guide being one of her most enduring and influential titles in the realm of practical Islamic family ethics.

Where to find it:

You can find the book at one of the online bookstores below:

• Dubray Books
• Kennys Bookshop
• Easons
• Amazon